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Eroticon 2014, Meet’n’Greet

My goodness! is it that time already? It feels as though we only just stepped off the plane from Atlanta, but apparently Eroticon 2014 is right around the corner! Third year, fourth Eroticon; you’d think I might have got the hang of this by now;

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Thank Yous from Eroticon USA

Two weeks ago I was in Atlanta. It seems both ridiculously recent and such a very long time ago. In all honesty, the weekend – nay, the whole week! – was something of a blur; between exhaustion and excitement and inspiration and (yes) arousal, the

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Outward Facing Treadmills

WARNING: this story contains horror themes that some readers may find distressing. Please use your best judgement when deciding whether to read on. Written in December, 2011; revived for Halloween 2013. The town had been silent for two days now. The air was heady with

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Rope on Red

Einstein’s, Atlanta – 2013 At the Eroticon USA after-party. Rope by Graydancer. Photograph by Molly. Happiness by everyone.

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Eroticon USA Meet and Greet

In exactly – exactly! – a month, I will be in Atlanta, at Eroticon USA. To say this excites me is a huge understatement. I cannot wait to be there. Along those lines, if you haven’t got your tickets yet, you’d better move quick before the

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Surrealish

Surrealish Sometimes the dark parts of myself are intangible; inexplicable, indescribable. In these moments all I can do is attempt to create something that feels similar, though it rarely makes intellectual or visual sense. Make of it what you will.

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Broken Glass

Taken in the broken glass at the unfinished and desolate Windrush Hotel. With thanks to Molly and Signs for taking me there.

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The User Manual

The personal user manual is an idea I got from Cunning Minx on her podcast, Polyamory Weekly. It’s a great podcast, and I love Minx’s no-bullshit, straightforward approach to non-monogamy. Her own user manual is a great read, and acted as a good model when

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Janus

Janus, n. (1508) 1. The name of an ancient Italian deity, regarded as the doorkeeper of heaven, as guardian of doors and gates, and as presiding over the entrance upon or beginning of things; represented with

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Hysteria: smoke screens and censorship

As is to be expected, my twitter timeline and my blogroll are currently flooded with articles and debate on the new ISP filters (which claim to be an attempt to protect children from pornography and will be introduced in the UK at the end of

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The Marriage Service [Edited]

Last weekend I posted a very drunken Audioboo as I stood outside a beautiful estate house in the country, inside which one of my closest (and youngest) friends was dancing with his new bride. In this Audioboo I claimed that I would edit the Church

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Hysteria: trigger words and social response

This morning I was linked to a BBC news article from 24th April 2013 titled Sex consent could still lead to rape charge, judges say. The piece discusses a case in which a man and a woman engaged in consensual vaginal intercourse without protection, agreed

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e[lust] #48

Photo courtesy of It Girl Rag Doll Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at